As a Certified Grief Coach, I empower women to heal from heartbreak

by equipping them with practical tools, compassionate support,

time-tested principles,

and faith-based insight—helping them

rebuild their lives with

confidence, joy, and purpose.

As a Certified Grief Coach, I empower women to heal from heartbreak

by equipping them with practical tools, compassionate support, time-tested principles, and faith-based insight—helping them rebuild their lives with confidence, joy, and purpose.

Click here to begin your healing journey with a FREE Coaching Session

Hi! I'm Sandy

I remember the moment my life changed forever.

I was in my bedroom.

My husband had just left me.

My youngest daughter was sleeping in her bed down the hall, unaware that our life and family were crumbling.

I felt numb. I felt fear. A wave of anxiety like I've never experienced before.

Like glass shattering into a million pieces, I felt broken beyond repair.

Around the same time as my divorce, my sweet mother and brother, who lived 2 miles from my home, passed away.

I could not catch a break.

But I had 6 kids, a handful of grandkids and a life to live. I had to pick myself up. I knew I had to.

But I didn't know how to make the pieces of me fit.

I always thought I had to try to fix what was broken. I found a grief coach and learned to take the pieces and made something NEW.

My healing journey using the HOPE Model of Healing has transformed me and helped me rebuild my life. I never thought I would be happy again, but I am living my best life.

Today as a certified grief and coach, I guide Christian women who have experienced divorce, relationship trauma, or other loss.

I help my clients through 5 stepping-stones of healing, effective coping techniques, and forgiveness so they can progress towards a life abundant with love, joy, and purpose.

I didn't think I would ever be happy again!

(I didn't know how my kids would heal either.)

I didn't think healing - to a point where my heart could be freed of sorrow and pain and replaced with joy and peace - was possible! But after finding a great grief coach, my life has been transformed and now I am living a joy-filled life of purpose.

I would love to help you achieve healing, hope, peace and transformation! The first step may be the hardest. Just click the link below to get free resources and start walking this healing road together.

FEELING LOST ON WHERE TO EVEN START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY?

Weekly Coaching

Your grief coach will meet with you weekly (often on Zoom) and be a compassionate listener and guide. These meetings are flexible to your needs and follow a proven, structured curriculum with a Workbook/Journal provided.

Instruction

Our curriculum is proven to support those who are grieving from divorce, relationship trauma, and death of a loved one.

We use the HOPE Model of Healing and 5 Foundations of Growth to support your healing journey, step by step..

Structure

Our 8-week program is structured and flexible, to allow the natural course of grief and healing to happen while gently guiding you to a healthier place.

You will be able to go through the workbook at your own pace during the week.

Support

When we're grieving, often we feel isolated from even closest friends and family. They may not know how to support you. Gain support from a professional outside your immediate circle to confide in and trust with your daily challenges.

Start with my free workshop (an intro to grief coaching!)

Testimonials

What My Clients Say

I felt like I was drowning and I couldn’t breathe.

I wasn’t functioning and I knew I needed help.

What drew me to Sandy was that she is someone who is so compassionate and has such an open, transparent, and genuine heart. I knew she had experienced great loss herself. She had sought help and had received healing and hope through that process, so much so, that she wanted to offer it to others. I didn’t know what that looked like and how it could help me, but I knew she was the person who could be there for me. She has walked the road of grief with me. She has cried with me. She has loved with me. She has laughed with me.

I am so grateful to say that I have come through to a place of joy and appreciation. All of the horizons of my life are opening up again. I know that healing is truly possible.

For anyone who experiencing loss yourself, I would say, talk to Sandy and give her the opportunity to walk that road with you.

Jenny

"There is not doubt in my mind that Sandy was exactly what I needed to transform my life.

I owe it to myself to continue to heal - healthy and correctly. I owe it to my future companion.

I am extremely thankful for Sandy.

Without her, my love for the Lord wouldn't have blossomed.

She has truly helped me heal, find confidence in myself, like never before, and now I have hope as I rebuild my life and dream again.

Anyone who feels stuck after divorces should hire Sandy as their coach. It will change your life."

Annalise

Sandy's coaching was an answer to prayer. Her program brought me out of the deep grief of loss and into the light again. My brain fog has lifted. My energy level and ability to show up for my kids have increased. Sandy is kind and easy to talk to. The tools I learned from her are invaluable and will be a part of my wellness practice for the rest of my life.

Thank you Sandy!

Lindsay

"My wounds were so big.

I was paralyzed with grief.

I was struggling to function and didn't know how to move forward after losing my daughter.

Sandy helped me when I needed it most.

I am so grateful for her loving kindness, gentle guidance, and wisdom."

Kristine

“I'm so grateful for my experience with Sandy! She helped me move toward feeling hope in life again - life as it is and can be.

The workbook was a good tool to facilitate this and helped me understand what I was going through.

My loss was not due to death or divorce but was none the less very painful for me and my feelings were very much the same. I'm grateful for her insight and tender care as I progressed along my path. I truly felt my burden being lightened and movement towards hope and even happiness for my future. Sandy listened, she truly showed love and wanted me to find healing and help and hope.”

Steph

It's time for healing!

Recover from loss from divorce, relationship trauma, or death of a loved one.

Take it from me, your Grief and Divorce Coach, Sandy Falter - HOPE is possible. JOY is possible. FORGIVENESS is possible.

You don't have to live with this heaviness, sadness, anger or resentment any more.

Let me help!

Start with my FREE Workshop

Sand to Glass

a poem by Sandy Falter

I used to be a rock. I was a solid foundation for others to crumble on, to rest on, to build on, to push off from, to feel, and I just stood solid.

Rock can build foundations, but it can also build barriers.
Because of some horrible experiences beginning in my childhood, I started to build walls of protection from further pain. I didn’t allow myself to be vulnerable - which also meant I couldn’t truly grow. I was stuck. It’s not easy to change rock. The process is brutal, painful.

Then the worst storm of my life hit. Far more tragic than anything I had ever experienced and it pulverized the rock. Broken in pieces.

But the rock became sand. Now I am sand.

Sand is vulnerable and changes. Sand is pleasant and comforting. Sand cannot hold everyone up but has to rely on others to be strong.

Sand can be transformed. Sand can become glass!

Transparent and reflective. Vulnerable. Refined. Glass reflects light. Glass protects and provides safety from the elements.

Glass is needed and desired. Glass is versatile and useful.

Glass is exquisitely beautiful!

I was a rock. Now I am sand.

I am being transformed into beautiful glass.